Sunday, 11 October 2015

Successful people get in line and stay in line


“Successful people get in line and stay in line.” Brian Tracy

I used to go from one thing to the next, never truly committing to anything. I had the mindset that if it didn't work out it didn’t matter because I would always have a back up plan. Why do we question ourselves? Why do we put so much pressure on ourselves? How can we stay true and trust in ourselves when the going gets tough? Humans have a need for certainty and this can lead us oh so cleverly back to our comfort zone.

per·se·ver·ance
noun
1. steady persistence in a course of action, a purpose, a state, etc., especially in spite of difficulties, obstacles, or discouragement.

You cannot have a back up plan or an easy out if you want to succeed. Joe Pane said something powerful that truly spoke to my soul and had a profound effect on me, he said "you're either all in or you're all out, you will never achieve what you want if you just dip your toe in to the water" When something means everything to you don’t say “if I make it” instead say “it's only a matter of time before I achieve it”

"It is not in the pursuit of happiness that we find fulfillment, it is in the happiness of pursuit.” Denis Waitley

Celebrate the small wins along the way and take note of the reference points of success. Talent will only get you so far; perseverance, hard word and being relentless in pursuit of your WHY, your Purpose and your vision will get you through.

"Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained.” Marie Curie

Be relentless in pursuit of what matters to you, it takes hard work to be great.

Rise Up. Out of the everyday and into life.

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Monday, 5 October 2015

Its ok to be selfish sometimes, isn't it?



Life was travelling along great until it all got ripped out from under me when I was a passenger in a single vehicle accident. I was only 20 years old and on the way to Far North Queensland. I wrote about it here.

I was fit, healthy and enjoying life. I had a beautiful girlfriend who I loved spending time with.  My job paid great money, with money came an apartment and a car. Safe to say life was very good.

I was in a bad way physically and mentally after the accident. The only way I could deal with getting myself right was to continue what I started and go up north and go walkabout.

“Walkabout” refers to a rite of passage during which male Australian Aboriginals would undergo a journey during adolescence and live in the wilderness for a period as long as six months. In this practice they would trace the paths, or "songlines", that their ancestors took, and imitate, in a fashion, their heroic deeds.

I left everything behind and never went back. My girlfriend was hurt and couldn’t understand why I was leaving. I left my car, apartment and job. I went north with a sleeping bag, a pillow and the clothes on my back. With very little money I slept on beaches, beside rivers and waterfalls. Hitch hiking was my sole mode of transport.

Selfish:
1. devoted to or caring only for oneself; concerned primarily with one's own interests, benefits, welfare, etc., regardless of others.
2. characterized by or manifesting concern or care only for oneself:

I tell this story because I was selfish and I did leave a path of destruction but it was what I believe I needed to do at the time to get my life back on track. I don’t know if it was right or wrong but it was the decision I made at the time. We all make decisions that affect other people in someway. Do we get it right all the time? Possibly not but that’s how life is.

“Putting yourself first is not selfish. Thinking about yourself constantly is selfish. Please respect the difference.” Kushandwizdom

We don’t need to fix ourselves, because we aren’t broken. Sometimes we need to take the time to reconnect with ourselves. This isn’t selfish it’s necessary for us as humans. We will be better people in the long run for those around us.


“Put yourself first...Because if you can't care about yourself, how the hell are you gonna care for someone else?” Unknown

Rise Up. Out of the everyday and into life.
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